Fionnuala and the kids have been trying in recent weeks to drag me kicking and screaming into the 21st Century by adding me to the family’s Snapchat group. This appears to involve sending each other photos and/or videos of yourself with animal ears or speaking in squeaky voice. Or both! At the same time!!
It’s all a bit beyond me. Firstly the app couldn’t acknowledge my facial features when I tried to take a photograph. Now I realise I’m no Brad Pitt or George Clooney but at the same time this was a bit of a blow to my already fragile self-esteem as Fionnuala says I’m no Quasimodo either.
I’d never seem a photograph of him before today but I have to say the face rings a bell….
*tumbleweed drifts across screen*
Anyhoooooo….another app they’ve introduced me to is Bitmoji. You know the one where you can create a cartoon character of yourself which can then reflect your every mood. Say happy….
Or sad…..
Or I feel like rocking the Christmas elf look.
In hindsight I don’t think I have the legs for those tights….
That aside I’ve taken to Bitmoji like a duck to water. Fionnuala is already bitterly regretting showing me how it works as I now bombard her and other friends with Bitmoji images as opposed to texting them ‘words’ or, heaven forbid, having an actual conversation. With words, eye contact and adulting stuff like that.
Isn’t it amazing how lazy we have become at communicating with each other. Why bother expending all that energy expressing yourself when a 😊 or a 👍🏻 will suffice. We love creating layers and barriers in order to hide our true selves. Being honest and open is almost regarded as a sign of weakness in this day and age.
We have become an emoji culture.
We are in fact an emotionless culture.
Facebook, Twitter and Instagram are all the same. So many people offering up entirely inaccurate and misleading caricatures of who they really are. We are the happy selfie generation while inside there is despair and selfishness. Nobody sees the real person anymore. They are buried beneath fake smiles and glazed eyes.
That’s what I love about you guys. The WordPress community. Realism. Warts and all. So real it cuts me to the bone at times. You wear your hearts on your sleeves every day. You inspire and motivate me. You tell stories of brokenness. You speak the truth even if it is a painful truth. You desire healing and growth. You want to move forward, to leave behind the zombie generation.
You want to help others but realise, before that, you have to help yourself.
We are the refugees of social media. The online outcasts. We have fled the coming storm and sought sanctuary within WordPress. It is our fortress, our stronghold. We have pulled up the drawbridge and now sit around the fire telling stories of struggle and recovery. We are a family, a community. We are one.
We don’t need selfies. We don’t pout or preen for the camera. We are what we are. Fragile, weak, yet real. Words are our weapons and tools. Together we are strong. There are multiple beliefs and faiths on the blogs I read here every day. But they are bound together by love, empathy and wisdom.
Physician heal thyself. But you are. One day at a time. One blog post at a time.
Why do you love most about WordPress?
Words are our weapons and tools. I like that. Am here because I want to tell the untold stories , those that we fear speaking about. Yes, and share them with people who understand the power of words .
LikeLiked by 2 people
I’m glad you like that line. Thank you. And I agree with everything you say.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I read this right after responding to your comment on my blog and could not stop smiling. I love WordPress because it’s helping come out of my shell little by little to be just what you said: real! I’m tired of hiding behind the walls of emojis, memes, and gifs even though they can be fun. I’m so glad that I get to be apart of this community and I’m glad to be getting to know you and your family better too!
LikeLiked by 3 people
Well that’s good because my job on here is to make people smile and think. We are glad you are on here as well. Keep blogging 😊
LikeLiked by 2 people
Mission accomplished, I definitely will. Oh, and I was meaning to ask you: does your church post their sermons online? You had mentioned that they did a study on Habakkuk and it made me curious 🙂
LikeLike
We are relatively new to the church. I don’t think so but I will find out for you. I took some notes so I will dig them out & share them with you.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank You! That woul be amazing 😊
LikeLike
Fionnuala has just informed me (cos I’m useless) that you can listen to the Habakkuk podcasts at journeycommunity.co.uk
LikeLike
This the link to our church website you will podcasts in the media option 😊
http://journeycommunity.co.uk/
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yay 😊 thank you again!
LikeLiked by 1 person
I hope you understand the Northern Irish accents 😏
LikeLiked by 1 person
Lol if I have questions I’ll definitely let you know 😊 but I already think it sounds better than our American accents lol
LikeLiked by 1 person
Ohhhh I haven t heard of bitmoji I need to try it out🙃😄🤗 I love wordpress or blogging because it s the one social media where I can really post and read real content, share things that are important to me and get inspirations by others. It s really more about being read that being seen…have a great weekend!💞
LikeLiked by 3 people
Yes you need to post your Bitmoji character for the world to see 😂 I agree with your comments and am really enjoying your mindfulness posts. We have very similar beliefs and values 😊
LikeLiked by 2 people
I ll create it soon and then I ll be unstoppable. 😂 thank you so much, feeling connected and blessed🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💛💛💞
LikeLiked by 2 people
I’m looking forward to seeing it 😂👍🏻
LikeLike
Good post. And a good question.
I’m on WordPress because it’s really easy to use (pretty much idiot-proof, in fact) and because I find the tyranny of brevity on Twitter and Facebook to be suffocating… I like my writing to be able to BREATHE – to have the word count it needs.
I’ve also come to quite enjoy the community that I’m a part of and I love discovering weird and wonderful blogs… I especially love anything different… there’s something quite endearing about many of of these blogs, I think; they’re real labours of love.
Hehe. By the way, I like your cartoon renderings, Stephen – I’ll have to give this Bitmoji a go!
LikeLiked by 4 people
Looking forward to seeing your Bitmoji Gary lol. Yes it’s a great community. Thank you.
LikeLike
Idiot proof – I feel like that was directly aimed at me 🤣
LikeLiked by 1 person
😂😂
LikeLike
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes! They are great lyrics. I’ve never heard of that group before. Where are they from?
LikeLiked by 1 person
They’re an African acapella group
LikeLiked by 1 person
Ahhhhh. I see.
LikeLike
Are you African? *he asked nosily*
LikeLiked by 1 person
Wow! Don’t know where to start from (again!) 😄
First, I don’t know many people who are able to make me laugh and think at the same time! Those words about (anti)social networks is kind of my brain scanner…
And I have been touched by your moving and inspiring words about WordPress.
Mira!! You complete a picture when I thought that nothing could have made it more perfect… there you come in when this incredible tune! Thank you all guys! You are AMAZING!
🤗
LikeLiked by 2 people
We are a community and I see us as helping each other every day with our words, images and music. Thank you 😊
LikeLiked by 1 person
Haha nosey troll – I’m a UN baby – raised in Africa, born to parents of multinationalities (: I am anything but one thing alone *she answers broadly* 😄
LikeLike
Well that narrows it down 😂😂
LikeLiked by 1 person
I love WordPress because as I write I pour and sort out my thoughts, fears, joys and concerns in hopes that the words that spill forth help others as they traverse this road on their way to eternity. It also allows me to “meet” and read those thoughts from such wonderful bloggers such as yourself. Many blessings to you and your family.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you for your kind words Loretta. It’s great to meet people like yourself via this forum 🙏🏻😊
LikeLike
This made me laugh really hard. The bitmoji thing seemed really corny to me and then I got addicted to it. My family uses it all the time and it’s a good laugh.. daily. Great post.
LikeLike
Always good to laugh Joseph. Yes it’s weirdly addictive lol. Thanks for the support 😊
LikeLiked by 1 person
Absolutely.
LikeLike
This is beautiful. I’ve always thought WordPress was different from the rest of social media, but I couldn’t ever put my finger on the reason. You perfectly described it. Thank you 😊
LikeLike
Thank you. I’ve lived an ugly life at times but hearing my words described as beautiful means a lot to me. Thank you for your support 🙏🏻😊
LikeLike
I love the connection of community that exists on WordPress.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes. I would agree with you there. Thanks Tammy 😊
LikeLike
I love the community of WordPress. I’ve made some good friends here, and connected with a few of them on Facebook.
I also like the ease of using WordPress. To me, it seems much more “user-friendly” than some other sites I’ve tried.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I totally agree Jeff. There seem to be lots of good people on here. Thank you.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I blog boss to meet a challenge the Lord gave me. My Pastor drove me home from church one Sunday and I promised him I would start a blog. I think I wrote my first post that day.
The written word communicates spirit – the human spirit. And that is powerful. And spirits are contagious, both good and bad. So, I have been blessed on more than one occasion by writers/bloggers who have expressed their hearts through the WordPress medium.
As you say, the writers are ‘real’. God created in us an innate capacity to discern human authenticity. There is something about being ‘authentic’ that touches a special place in our soul. Jesus is real and he obviously desires us to be likewise.
(Yes, I can never post a comment on your blog without taking up all of your precious real estate out there 😀).
LikeLiked by 1 person
Write as much as you want David 😂 your comments are always welcome. Thank God for the encouragement your pastor gave you to write 🙏🏻
LikeLiked by 1 person
🙂 … yup. I couldn’t resist. 😉
LikeLike
😂
LikeLike
“One day at a time”, huh? Well, that is my blog’s title, so that you for that piece of advertisement 😀
No, please do not go and join the dark side of emoji only writing. However, I have to agree that Bitmoji is a lot of fun. Multiple people tried to make me use it, but I didn’t think it was for me, but once I tried it… I consciously made the effort to not use it as often, because I would be addicted and soon would forget what words are.
WordPress… aside from my off and on recent problems with commenting on the platform, I like the fact that we have issue to such a wide array of bloggers.
LikeLike
I’m happy to advertise your fantastic blog. Thank you 😊
LikeLiked by 1 person
🙂
LikeLike
Great post, I cannot abide Snapchat snd my most used app is WordPress followed by gmail where I continue the conversation. I will always be me and as real as possible 🌟
LikeLike
Thank you. Keep being you 🙏🏻😊
LikeLiked by 1 person
I love my WordPress family! I started without a clue of what I was doing. I gained a few followers who immediately encouraged me. Today, I know a little more about it and have many more encouragers. God uses me in the lives of others and vice versa. This journey has been a blessing.
LikeLiked by 1 person
My journey has been a mirror image of what you have written Matthew. Thank you! And keep the comeback going 🙏🏻
LikeLiked by 1 person
I love being able to have a platform, and to share, encourage, and uplift others. I never thought I’d have something like before, nor the amazing community that has welcomed me and supported me. 🙂 This was fun to read.
LikeLike
You are very central to our daily WordPress family. Thank you for your daily wisdom and encouragement.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you so much! This is encouraging to hear 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
It is wonderful to have a place to share thoughts and encourage others. I hope that after 77 years I have some wisdom to help others. Suzanne
LikeLiked by 1 person
You have much to share. Thank you 😊
LikeLike
Great writing. I’m new to the WordPress community. Still trying to figure out all this blogging stuff because I love to write and want to showcase it, but I have to say, an unexpected gift has been finding people who think and express themselves as I do. I wish I had more time to read, comment and interact with others. Hopefully, I’ll get there as I become more efficient.
LikeLike
Yes Yes Yes…to every word. I’m so with you. 🙏
LikeLike
I’m so pleased you enjoyed it. I write these posts for people like you 🙏🏻😊
LikeLike
I have found WordPress to be a great platform where you can engage with others who have similar gifts and passions. I have only been blogging consistently for about 7 months but really look forward to connecting with people from all over the world in 2018. A great place to be able to challenge and encourage people as well
LikeLiked by 1 person
I agree. We started seven months ago as well.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Awesome, I look forward to reading more of your posts.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I love how WordPress allows you to create your own online space and community to share and support with. It’s been a big help to me over the past few years from both a writing and a reading perspective.
LikeLike
I’m learning the same Caleb with every passing day. Thanks 🙏🏻
LikeLiked by 1 person
Been thinking a lot about this post over the weekend. The last few paragraphs in particular. Still processing, but it definitely resonates.
LikeLike
I’m glad you are getting something from it and would love to know your thoughts. But I appreciate if you want to keep processing for now. Thank you 😊
LikeLiked by 1 person
“We have fled the coming storm and sought sanctuary within WordPress.” LOL, I love it! May writing and blogging never go out of style.
LikeLike
Amen 🙏🏻😊
LikeLiked by 1 person
The thing I like the most about WordPress is connecting with others. I also love to be able to express myself and get feedback.
LikeLike
Me too. It’s like a family
LikeLiked by 1 person
“Being honest and open is almost regarded as a sign of weakness in this day and age…” I wonder why this may be so. Identifying the real me, beneath the false selves has been my life’s work. Exploring authenticity is difficult. I just don’t see the weakness in this pursuit. I have often said that WordPress is a forum where women go to be seen and a place where men go to hide. I still stand by this opinion. It’s a place where I work things out, regardless of whether my words are read or embraced. The self- examination is the journey. One I will travel until my last day.
LikeLike